Daily wisdom March 7, 2014- revised

"Worrying is like praying for what you don’t want."

How many times have you worried about something or someone, and you come to find out all that fret was for nothing? Just time wasted on negative energy (esp bad for your health). Worried about your taxes? Yes taxes are quite important. Either you will owe X-amount or not owe anything. Apr 15 can be considered 'dooms day' to those who start on taxes late. Why putting it off? every year we all know they need to be done. know they probably wont be done in time? file for extension early. or start working on them towards the end of the year, and work a little bit at a time. Yes, taxes are stressful, but do not require to take some time off your life span when preventable Worried about your health? Eat better, exercise a few days a week. Still wondering? get answers. Worried its life threatening? We're all gonna die one day. That's just an IS, why fight it? Worried about the dinner party you're hosting this Friday? Is the tablecloth ironed? Do we have enough asparagus? When the time comes, your guests will see how much time you put into this, and if something gets burnt, they'll still appreciate your efforts. If they can't see that - Why do you care if they approve or not? You are the only person who needs to approve. The phrase "roll with the punches" seems appropriate. Worried about a relative or old friend you haven't heard from? Send them an email, call, or even a letter. (The latter will be much more appreciated. Takes about 3 days) You will feel much better, and free yourself from regret of never getting in that last message. Worried about your lover? Ask them. Worried about your job? Start looking for another. Worried about a test? Study more Worried about food? There are churches and soup kitchens around with pantries. This isn't the great depression. Food isn't scarce. If you're a person who has a higher power or is a believer, start with the real type of prayer- the one you send above. If you're an introvert - write it down. (it feels better to get it out). Worrying a lack of patience. Communication is a game changer.