Thoughts and Wisdom of Western Civilization; or some white girl's diary: wisdom

Monday, May 23, 2016

Human condition

"The future is not for us to see"

Humans work toward controlling their future,

They need to be more open to expecting the unknown. To be flexible with what the future brings, roll with the punches, reduces anxiety of the aftermath. Easier said than done, I know. Try taking a class on mindfulness. Being mindful will help tremendously. What's 'mindfulness' you say?

"a mental state achieved by focusing one's awareness on the present moment, while calmly acknowledging and accepting one's feelings, thoughts, and bodily sensations."

Sounds complicated, I know. That's why I said take a class.

Friday, March 7, 2014

Daily wisdom March 7, 2014- revised

"Worrying is like praying for what you don’t want."

How many times have you worried about something or someone, and you come to find out all that fret was for nothing? Just time wasted on negative energy (esp bad for your health). Worried about your taxes? Yes taxes are quite important. Either you will owe X-amount or not owe anything. Apr 15 can be considered 'dooms day' to those who start on taxes late. Why putting it off? every year we all know they need to be done. know they probably wont be done in time? file for extension early. or start working on them towards the end of the year, and work a little bit at a time. Yes, taxes are stressful, but do not require to take some time off your life span when preventable Worried about your health? Eat better, exercise a few days a week. Still wondering? get answers. Worried its life threatening? We're all gonna die one day. That's just an IS, why fight it? Worried about the dinner party you're hosting this Friday? Is the tablecloth ironed? Do we have enough asparagus? When the time comes, your guests will see how much time you put into this, and if something gets burnt, they'll still appreciate your efforts. If they can't see that - Why do you care if they approve or not? You are the only person who needs to approve. The phrase "roll with the punches" seems appropriate. Worried about a relative or old friend you haven't heard from? Send them an email, call, or even a letter. (The latter will be much more appreciated. Takes about 3 days) You will feel much better, and free yourself from regret of never getting in that last message. Worried about your lover? Ask them. Worried about your job? Start looking for another. Worried about a test? Study more Worried about food? There are churches and soup kitchens around with pantries. This isn't the great depression. Food isn't scarce. If you're a person who has a higher power or is a believer, start with the real type of prayer- the one you send above. If you're an introvert - write it down. (it feels better to get it out). Worrying a lack of patience. Communication is a game changer.

Thursday, November 21, 2013

Daily wisdom 11/21

Locally it's raining today, so I'm not sure many will interpret this.

I posted this because this is the first day since my furlough I've posted a quote. I haven't posted a quote because I've been going through a miscarriage. And I'm mad at myself, because I didn't heed my own advice (learn to dance in the rain).